Ask yourself this question: In a time of crisis, who can I count on? It is an important question to consider. Is the only person you can really count on yourself? If that’s what you believe, you are not alone. It is a common sentiment and reflects a core value for many adults: the importance of taking care of oneself, being responsible and self-sufficient.
While it is vitally important to develop self-reliance and independence, it’s also valuable to have a support team upon which you can depend. Having someone you can trust – a family member, friend, or anyone who can offer help, guidance, and support – is immensely helpful, especially during tough times.
In addition to a support team, know that God will be faithful to you, no matter what happens in your life. He is a support that you can always depend on, and believe me, you will need God at some point in your life as I have discovered in my own life.
Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Philippians, emphasizes the importance of having a reliable companion on their journey of faith. He writes, “But you know Timothy’s proven worth. How as son with a father, he has served with me in the gospel. I hope therefore to send him just as soon as I see how it will go with me. And I trust in the Lord that shortly I myself will come also.” The Apostle saw that the believers at Philippi would need someone in times of distress and trouble.
When something goes wrong, do you have at least one friend you can easily talk to about your situation? The writer of Proverbs said, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” We cannot put a price on the value of those we can depend upon during times of crisis.
Remember that in a battle, two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But for someone who falls alone, the situation is more dire. Also, a person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer any opposition.
I cannot guess the number of times I have counted on my wife’s guidance in challenging situations. My father was always a reliable source of advice as well. After his passing, having my wife to lean on during times of uncertainty has been an immense blessing and a source of strength to Never Give Up! Never Give Up! Never Give Up!

Dr. Walter Ghosten