The Bible offers several reasons why relationship building is essential. Sustainable relationships are lasting and are built on actively listening to the other person. In the book of Proverbs, “Spouting off before listening to the facts is shameful and foolish.” Proverbs encourages careful listening, patience, and a humble desire for understanding before speaking. It warns against the potential shame of answering too quickly or without sufficient knowledge.
We should always listen actively to others before speaking. Responding to something without fully hearing and understanding is foolish and shameful. It is always wise to be patient and gather information before speaking. So, taking the time to hear all sides of a story, considering the facts, and understanding different perspectives are crucial before forming opinions or offering advice.
A key fact to remember in building a relationship is this: you must desire understanding more than giving your opinion. Proverbs states, “A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing their opinion.” If a person’s habit is to parade their opinions rather than seeking to truly understand what is being said or discussed, it is nothing short of foolish.
So, as we observe the world around us and seek to discern various ideas and teachings, give yourself to listening. Be patient to really understand before responding in any relationship. You will be wise, and your mouth will be a fountain of life, and you will avoid the folly and shame that inevitably come with being quick to speak and slow to hear.
In building a relationship, remember that arrogance and overconfidence lead to mistakes. Speaking prematurely can stem from a desire to appear knowledgeable, but it often leads to mistakes. So, don’t form your response while the other person is talking. And never become so entrenched in your position that you are unwilling to consider another’s viewpoint.
Listening is about connecting and acknowledging where the other person is coming from. When you commit to work on your relationships, you will never regret your efforts, no matter how things ultimately turn out. Relationship building is crucial for both personal and professional well-being. Strong relationships foster trust, improve communication, encourage collaboration, and enhance overall happiness and satisfaction. They provide support, reduce stress, and contribute to a sense of belonging. Meaningful connections with others provide a sense of belonging and can contribute to a feeling of purpose in life. So Be Blessed and Never Give Up! Never Give Up! Never Give Up!
Dr. Walter Ghosten
